Those Favorite Things

A year ago you were welcomed

into a world that has become your own.

Gandhi for a day - Vora for life;

who knew what your favorite things would be.

A love we felt so strong - in your gentle touch and cries.

Your smiles lift us abound;

the sleepy head that lets us wonder

what your favorite things might be?

And then those times you grew to sense

the things around you;

the songs that make you dance and sing.

Tugging your toys and making faces

that make us laugh.

Books that only let your mind marvel

at all it has to offer.

Feeling so happy when we take your pic!

Could these be some of your favorite things?

The curiosity of not knowing

when things rattle and move and sway!

You amaze us as you learn each step and turn.

These could be your favorite things!

And then there are favorite people to embrace;

those caring looks and loving hugs!

Some so naughty that do delight you.

Some so priceless that time cannot replace.

Eating times are always fun!

Are these your favorite things?

A sense of magic in those very firsts

and moments so exciting

especially those hi-fives and the lovely toys;

With so much to learn - and all that lies ahead.

Oh to those times when you groan,

which the family makes them go away.

So as you turn ONE today,

it makes us wonder

about all your favorite things

and we simply would not trade

a minute of such moments!

God bless you

today and always!

Ma-Daddy

August 29, 2011

Be inspired and Make a Difference

There is no escaping the current wave of movement in India (and for Indians outside of it) concerning the status of #LokpalBill, #AnnaHazare and the #Futureofindiangoverningsystem. From the surge in news through the web of social media, one would think it is easy to understand the basis of this movement. Yet, to be very honest, I feel a bit disoriented about this entire episode. There are so many articles, discussions, forums regarding various standpoints on this movement – whether the Lokpal Bill is good for the nation or Anna Hazare’s movement needs to be supported or will these together harm the overall functioning (in its current manner – right or wrong) of the country. Anna Hazare’s fast seems to be the means to bring out this bill that has the ability to fight corruption at all levels. A true Gandhian would believe that ‘ends do not justify the means’ and this movement is another classic example (aside from the entire independence movement) of the quote. Bill or no Bill, I do not believe it will bring an overnight solution to the problem – it is not a magic wand (Loved your speech Mr. Jaitley and yes, there is no such wand out there!) that would remove the illegal systems that govern our country.

So in all of this, I ask myself whether I support Anna Hazare - Yes I do. Not the man per se but his means to tackle this problem is what I wholeheartedly value. This is a clear example of standing up to one’s principles and it requires a lot of conviction. In current day and age, our generation is so blinded by what goes on that it is rare to find situations that have such integrity and the fact that we get to live through such situations, the least we can do is be inspired and make a difference. There may be a lot of individuals/groups that do not support this man. And rightly so. If you do not believe in Lokpal or Hazare and do not want to support it, that is fine. Everyone has their own views and approach to what they believe in. But the point is whether we make a real impact to what we truly believe in. That in itself is more crucial than merely pointing fingers at those who are atleast attempting to ‘make a difference’.

I personally do not view this movement as a fight to destabilize the existing government or to find faults in the ‘foreign’ ruler. But it is to stand up to our own social and moral responsibilities. This fight is not only about the kind of corruption that goes on at the top level, but more importantly, how we would tackle those kinds of instances that run our day-to-day functioning – traffic violation, drivers’ license, school admissions, taxes, etc. If we do not fight these daily situations in the spirit of ‘Change’, the Bill will result into an even more dangerous entity. After all, it is we the people that contribute to such situations in the first place and not just the politicians and the bureaucrats.

It is not easy to take that first step – but we can use this movement to our advantage. This is by far the best opportunity we have to make the most of the time and its relevance (read = elections) and thereby pave way to ‘create’ a situation for the right kind of people/party worthy of support. Anna Hazare gives us hope – and all we have to do is take those baby steps – be inspired and make a difference.